Mental Health Counselling at Home: Self-Care Strategies for Your Mind

Have you ever considered that your home can be a sanctuary for mental wellness? With the increasing awareness of the importance of mental health, it’s vital to recognise that help doesn’t always come from an office. Instead, it can begin right where you are. This blog explores effective self-care strategies that nurture your mind and foster mental wellbeing in the comfort of your own home.

The Importance of Mental Health

Mental health is as crucial as physical health, yet it often does not receive the same attention. It encompasses our emotional, psychological, and social well-being, influencing how we think, feel, and act in daily life. Challenges like stress, anxiety, and depression can often be exacerbated by our environments, making it essential to create a space that promotes mental wellness.

Key Self-Care Strategies

Routine Building

Routine can anchor us, providing a sense of stability in our often busy daily lives. Start by setting regular sleeping and waking times, and schedule blocks for work, exercise, and leisure. This structure helps your mind understand what to expect each day and reduces anxiety.

Tips: Begin with the non-negotiables like sleep and meals, then fill in other activities around these anchors.

Physical Activity

Exercise isn’t just for the body. It also releases chemicals like endorphins and serotonin that improve your over all mood. It’s not even necessary to leave the house, there are an abundance of online exercise classes and videos of all lengths so you can find something that fits into your day. Most importantly, find something that you enjoy and make it part of your routine.

Simple Activities: Try starting your day with 10 minutes of stretching or a brisk walk.

Healthy Eating

What we eat affects how we feel. Foods rich in vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants can combat inflammation and support brain function, impacting our mood and energy levels. It is also vital to stay hydrated,

Mood-Boosting Foods: Incorporate foods like fatty fish, nuts, and leafy greens into your diet to boost brain health and help stabilise mood.

Mindfulness, Breathing and Relaxation

Mindfulness involves being present and fully engaged with the current moment. It can reduce stress and enhance your overall emotional health. There are free resources available online, such as, offering meditations and breathing/relaxation exercises. Our breath is something we have with us all day, every day, so developing good deep breathing habits will provide instant resources whenever you feel stressed or need to ground yourself.

Techniques: Start by engaging in guided meditations or practice deep breathing exercises for 5-10 minutes a day.

Digital Detox

Reducing screen time can significantly benefit your mental health. Excessive exposure of blue light from digital devices, especially before bed, can disrupt sleep and increase feelings of anxiety.

Reducing Screen Time: Allocate specific times in your day when you put away digital devices, especially during meals and the hour before bedtime.

Creative Outlets

Engaging in creative activities such as drawing, writing, baking, gardening, music or DIY projects can be incredibly therapeutic. They allow you to express yourself and can be a significant stress reliever,

Ideas: Start a journal or pick up a creative hobby like knitting or painting.

Professional Help and Online Resources

When to Seek Professional Help

It’s important to recognize when self-care is not enough. If you’re experiencing persistent sadness, anxiety, or other symptoms that significantly impair your daily functioning, it might be time to seek professional help.

Online Counselling

Online therapy provides access to professional help without leaving your home. It’s flexible, cuts down on the journey to and from a clinic, and allows you to choose the right counsellor for you, who may not always be in your area. It is also just as effective as in-person counselling.

Maintaining Your Mental Well-Being

Regular self reflection can help you keep track of your mental health. Use apps or journals to monitor your feelings and experiences. Also, don’t underestimate the power of a strong support network; maintaining connections with friends and family, even virtually, can provide immense emotional support.


Implementing these self-care strategies at home can make a significant difference to your mental health. Start small, perhaps by integrating more wholesome foods into your diet or setting a bedtime routine. Every small step is a move towards a healthier mind. Remember, resources are available, and it’s okay to seek help when you need it. Take the first step today; your mental health is worth it.

Don’t hesitate to contact me for any assistance

Debbie Kelly MSc is an experienced counsellor offering telephone and online counselling. She works with clients experiencing life challenges concerning anxiety, depression, work stress, grief and bereavement, relationship difficulties and miscarriage/pregnancy loss.